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Be Your Inspiration

June 09, 20233 min read

Become your inspiration... you are incredible

You can be your inspiration... you can be everything you want and more.

We are always seeking to look around us for inspiration, but what about if I told you that you, indeed, could be your inspiration? I will tell you why I include myself in my inspiration.

I was a girl who saw the world through rose-tinted glasses. I would smile at every stranger and be hurt when they didn't smile back... why were a lot of humans sad or angry? It then changed when I was 16, a college lecturer groomed me, and I didn't even see it; I was manipulated and made to feel what it was like to be a woman in that era; it was hard to feel safe. I understood why the human race weren't all seeing the world the way I did. I was then involved in an abusive relationship at 19 that changed my life; it hurt me, tore me apart, and showed me fear and anger. It highlighted, even more, that love was not as simple as I thought; it showed me that you could see the darkest of nights in your daylight. I started my mental health journey and developed self-harm as a coping mechanism. I was suicidal and became my own worst enemy. I then walked through life in fear and scared of strangers, scared of trust and scared of love. I was stalked for nearly 4 years after I ended that relationship, no professionals helped me, I felt alone. I didn't understand what I felt, thought, or what this was. Eventually, I met someone else and little did I know that this person who I thought was calm and caring was in fact a narcissist, a person who coercively controlled me and financially controlled me, he made me feel I was never enough, he gave me a narrative that I was stupid, useless and spoilt when all I wanted was love, care and freedom.

When I started my self-development journey and wanted to create change in my life, I realised I had to change my outlook, I had to recognise how powerful I was, that I was, in fact, my own inspiration. I was not born here to just exist, I was born here to leave my footprints on this world by inspiring myself and others. I wanted to be a voice for myself and every woman out there, who feels lonely, feels lost, and feels like there is no way out. You have to see your achievements and recognise your skills and incredible journey to see that yes YOU ARE POWERFUL AND INSPIRATIONAL.

What you want to achieve is right there within you, just dig that bit deeper to find her. Reflect on your amazing journey and there you will see she is within you, she is waiting to shine as bright as you allow her to.

Let's have a little look at your life so far, what journey have you been on? What have you achieved and overcome?

Note it down and thank yourself for being YOU. Say thank you for being YOU.

I am proud of each and every one of you for being YOU, for being on your journey just as you are. You can be whatever you want to be, you are capable and do not allow the fear to hold you back, we make mistakes but that is okay, that is a part of our learning and our growth.

Go get it girl...

empowering female, be your inspiration

Alessia xx

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